一、世間有多少女人，背負着老公的婚內出軌，備受感情的煎熬，還要看在孩子的份上繼續堅持婚姻的存續。每個人心底都有那麼一個人，已不是戀人，也成不了朋友。時間過去，無關乎喜不喜歡，總會很習慣的想起你。然後希望你一切都好。How many women in the world, who are carrying their husband's marital derailment, suffer from emotional suffering, but also depend on the children to continue to adhere to the survival of marriage. Everyone has such a person in his heart that he is no longer a lover or a friend. Time passes, regardless of whether you like it or not, you will always be used to thinking of you. Then I hope you're all right.
二、正所謂「人生的最高境界，不是高官厚祿、錦衣玉食，高不可攀，而是四個大字：問心無愧。」所以說，只要你活着，就做一個有良心問心無愧的人！不管你做什麼事都不能昧了良心，一旦良心壞了，你就會活在良心的不安和自責之中，悔恨終生 。所以，做人，一定要有良心！The so-called "the highest realm of life, is not high officials, rich salaries, rich clothes and precious food, high can not be climbed, but four big words: a clear conscience." So, as long as you live, be a conscientious person! No matter what you do, you can't lose your conscience. Once your conscience is broken, you will live in the anxiety and self-reproach of your conscience and regret for life. So, to be a man, we must have conscience!
三、別再唱什麼往後餘生了，女孩子不努力掙錢，不捨得變美，往後餘生，做飯是你，洗衣是你，做家務是你，遭嫌棄的是你，看孩子還是你。發過很多次誓也信誓旦旦說真的要放下你，可最後還是心累到不行紅着眼眶和自己說真的很想和你在一起。Don't sing any more for the rest of your life. Girls don't work hard to make money, they don't want to be beautiful. For the rest of their lives, you cook, you wash, you do housework, you are rejected, you watch the children or you. I swear many times that I really want to put you down, but in the end I am too tired to be red-eyed and I really want to be with you.
四、時光流逝，討厭的人會帶着討人厭的話離開，喜歡的人會帶着美好的事到來。把目光放在遠處，灑脫還給自己。忘掉路人，放過自己。我們的生活有太多無奈，我們無法改變，也無力去改變，更糟的是，我們失去了改變的想法。As time goes by, disgusting people will leave with disgusting words, and like people will come with good things. Put your eyes in the distance and give yourself free and easy. Forget the passers-by and let go of yourself. There are so many helplessness in our life that we can't change, and we can't change. What's worse, we have lost the idea of change.
五、有的人該忘就忘了吧，所謂的念念不忘，在自己眼裡，是愛，在對方眼裡，是煩，在別人眼裡是賤。讓自己忙一點，忙到沒有時間去思考無關緊要的事，很多事就這樣悄悄地淡忘了。時間不一定能證明很多東西，但是一定能看透很多東西。Some people should forget it, so-called mindfulness, in their own eyes, is love, in the eyes of the other party, is annoying, in the eyes of others is cheap. Keep yourself busy, too busy to think about unimportant things, so many things are quietly forgotten. Time may not prove many things, but it must be able to see through many things.
六、 他並不喜歡你，他只是喜歡被你喜歡，偶爾對你示好，只是怕你不再喜歡他，怕失去被你愛慕的虛榮，就像寵物跑遠了，主人會叫一下它的名字。所有的種子，破土而出的時候，不會去想，遇到的是風雨，還是陽光，所以做任何事不要去設想結局，幹了才會知道下一步是什麼！重點是邁出第一步！He does not like you, he just likes to be liked by you, occasionally show good to you, just afraid that you no longer like him, afraid of losing the vanity You love, just like a pet running away, the owner will call its name. When all the seeds come out, they don't think about whether it's rain or sunshine. So don't imagine the end of anything. Only when you do, you will know what the next step is. The point is to take the first step!
七、人生是有限的 我們所能做的 不過是在有生之年 讓自己過得高興些罷了。永遠別去猜別人對你是真心還是假意。只要在一起的時候，不覺得辛苦就好。Life is limited - amp; nbsp; what we can do - amp; nbsp; but in our lifetime - amp; nbsp; make ourselves happier. Never guess whether someone is sincere or false to you. As long as we are together, we don't feel hard.
八、生活其實很簡單，過了今天就是明天。每個人都有兩個自己：一個是外在的、社會性的、變了形的；一個是內在的、本質的真實的自己，就是心靈。兩個自己需要交談，如果隔絕太久，日久天長，最後剩下的只是一個在地球上跑來跑去、被社會所異化的自己。Life is very simple. Today is tomorrow. Everyone has two selves: one is external, social and transfigured; the other is inner, essential and real selves, that is, the soul. Two of them need to talk. If they are separated for too long, for too long, all they have left is a person who runs around the earth and is alienated by society.
九、窮人與富人的差別就是思想的差別，你是什麼樣的思想，你就會有什麼樣的人生；人要改變很簡單，不是看你有多少學歷、多大背景，而是看你從何時轉換你的觀念！The difference between the poor and the rich is the difference of thought, what kind of thought you have, and what kind of life you will have. It's very simple to change people, not how many degrees and backgrounds you have, but when you change your ideas!
十、夜已深，萬家燈火熄，而我還在想你，又是一個失眠的長夜，過往陪着我走過萬水千山，可惜，不是你牽着我的手，一起看細水長流。我孤獨地望着天邊的月，你似天上星，遙不可及。我愛着你，從天黑到黎明，從飄雪到花開，從酷暑到秋涼，一切皆是你，生生不息，輪迴不止。It's late at night, thousands of lights go out, and I'm still thinking of you. It's a long sleepless night. I've been walking with me through thousands of rivers and mountains in the past. Unfortunately, it's not you holding my hand and watching the water flow together. I look at the moon on the horizon lonely, you are like the stars in the sky, far from reach. I love you, from darkness to dawn, from snowfall to blossom, from hot summer to cool autumn, everything is you, endless, endless reincarnation.
十一、人生不能彩排，每個清晨，都是一個新的開始；每一個黃昏，都是一個終結。忘掉昨天的不快樂，做一株向日葵，向着陽光微笑前行。無論生活如何地讓你滿面風塵、守心自暖，心若不動，風又奈何？你若不傷，歲月無恙。終有一天，你會學會不爭不搶、不遠不近，腳步走的不急不緩、從容不迫。雖然時光可以蒼老容顏，而心卻可以依然年輕。Life cannot be rehearsed. Every morning is a new beginning; every evening is an end. Forget yesterday's unhappiness. Be a sunflower and smile to the sunshine. No matter how life fills your face with dust, keep your heart warm, if your heart does not move, what will the wind do? If you don't hurt, the years will be all right. One day, you will learn not to rush, not too far, not too fast, not too slow. Although time can be old, but the heart can still be young.
十二、做一個安靜的人，讀書，旅行，等待愛情。給自己一段柔軟的時光。從此不打擾，不想念，願現世安穩，各自安好。今天很殘酷，明天更殘酷，後天很美好，但是大多數人死在明天晚上，看不到後天的太陽!!!晚安！Be a quiet person, read, travel, wait for love. Give yourself a soft time. From now on, do not disturb, do not want to miss, wish the world is stable, their own well. Today is very cruel, tomorrow is more cruel, the day after tomorrow is very beautiful, but most people die tomorrow night, can not see the sun the day after tomorrow!!! Good night!
十三、 你儘量照顧每個人的感受，不想身邊的人不開心，你總能發現他們情緒的細微變化，可最後被撇下的，永遠是你。一直在努力，並且堅信會有成功的那一天，無論前路多麼坎坷，都要堅持走下去，因為成功不容易，但如果你連這點自信都沒有，反而自甘墮落，那就不能怪老天爺不公了。堅持、努力、加油！You try to take care of everyone's feelings. You don't want the people around you to be unhappy. You can always find the subtle changes in their emotions, but it's always you who are left behind. Always strive, and firmly believe that there will be a successful day, no matter how bumpy the road ahead, we must stick to it, because success is not easy, but if you do not even have this self-confidence, but willingly degenerate, it can not blame God unfair. Persistence, hard work and refueling!
十四、當別人落難時，你拼了命的幫，自己落難時，別人拼了命的笑，這些都是現實，得意時，朋友們認識了你，落難時，你重新認識了朋友。對於世界，你可能只是一個人，但對於某個人，你卻是整個世界When others are in distress, you help them desperately, when you are in distress, others laugh desperately. These are realities. When you are proud, your friends know you, and when you are in distress, you know your friends again. To the world, you may only be one person, but to one person, you are the whole world.
十五、在年輕的時候，如果你愛上了一個人，請一定要溫柔地對待他。不管你們相愛的時間有多久，若能始終溫柔地相待，那麼，所有的時刻都將是無瑕的美麗。若不得不分離，也要好好說再見，要心裡存着感謝，感謝他給了你一份記憶。長大以後，你才會知道在驀然回首的剎那，沒有怨恨的青春才會無比遺憾。When you are young, if you fall in love with someone, please treat him gently. No matter how long you love each other, if you can always treat each other tenderly, then all the time will be flawless beauty. If you have to be separated, you should say goodbye well, thank you in your heart, thank him for giving you a memory. When you grow up, you will know that when you look back suddenly, youth without resentment will be extremely regrettable.
十六、曾經以為很多不可或缺的人，走着走着就散了，連個告別都沒有。人生沒有那麼多的公平可言。偏轉一下你的航向，逆風就會成為順風。刻苦努力，堅持不懈，最終耀眼的太陽就會跑到你的身後。你生活的起點並不是那麼重要，重要的是最後你抵達了哪裡。Once thought that many indispensable people, walk away, even a farewell did not exist. Life is not so fair. Turn your course a little, and the wind will turn downwind. Hard work, perseverance, the eventual dazzling sun will run behind you. The starting point of your life is not so important. What matters is where you arrive at the end.
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